The marriage preps are still in the process... left to confirm caterer, songs, guest list, ad program ... at times i just feel ... tired... at times i just wana say forget abt the dinner.. jus have church and tea ceremony.. full stop... gives us less problems with guests as well as cash... since we r the ones paying we shld decide what happens shldnt we ? *siGhx* im so tired... every other day sure have new things cropping up... new "comments" new "changes" and we are expected to conform... Just who is getting married now? Why do old foggies have to "demand" that we have it done their way? Yes once in a lifetime.. for us! Shldnt we have it done our way? I'm sure not everyone has such problems... *siGhx* If we were super rich i wld jus get wedding planner to settle everything and I can just relax... too bad we ain't... haiii...